There comes a point in life when successful people find themselves surrounded by people who want to bring him down. The same was true for Dean Kosage However difficult the situation may have been, Dean managed to overcome it with creativity and positivity. In many ways, Dean says that he is grateful for his haters because it is the discouragement and the negativity that they flung in his direction that fueled his desire to become successful.
"Unstoppable success even in the face of adversity is all about drawing on your resources and taking advantage of new opportunities,” said Dean.
Dean was especially attacked by haters and cyberbullies when he was with one of his first successes a company in the Direct Selling Industry. The company’s inability to communicate well with people or address the issues it was having exposed Dean to a lot of undue negativity because of his association. Caught in the crossfire, Dean realized that it was time to step away and create his own world.
How did Dean manage to ignore the hate speech that was directed towards him?
The truth is, he did not ignore his haters at all. Dean believes that there is plenty to learn from critics as well as haters. From critics, he believes that people can learn about areas where they must improve. And from haters, he says that we can learn about how people think and behave – and this knowledge is vital to get leverage towards success.
Dean Kosage’s Advice on Dealing with Haters
Although the path to success was hard and filled with difficulties, Dean is thankful that today he is a man full of knowledge and experience. These are some pearls of wisdom drawn from Dean’s experiences:
● Stay true to your commitments.
Dean believes that it is important for people to stick to their commitments no matter what happens. He says that the moment a person loses focus from what he is committed to, he will easily fall prey to the insults and critical comments of haters. Dean says that his unadulterated focus on his goals prevented him from getting discouraged or distracted by his haters.
● Pick the essentials, discard the rest.
There are a lot of things that haters say. However, instead of ignoring these things completely, Dean insists that it’s important to pick out things from their words that are essential for self-growth and development. Instead of wasting time on worrying about the hurtful comments. Dean suggests analyzing what is said, and see if there are hidden ideas or suggestions in them.
● Remember who you are.
Haters attack there where it hurts the most – self-identity. Haters try to make you feel terrible. If you fall into this trap, it will lead you to self-doubt and even break your confidence down. Dean suggests a simple solution to survive this – to remind yourself of who you are, what your ideals, values, your goals. He says that when we are sure of ourselves, nothing that anyone says can ever bring us down.
● Think of who you’re doing it for.
When hard times fell on Dean, he already had plenty of responsibilities in his hands. As a single father, he had to strive hard to make sure that his daughter never felt neglected. Instead of letting it become his weakness, he made it his strength. He knew that he had to win for his daughter.
Visit dean-kosage.us to know more about Dean.
Dean Kosage on Vimeo (https://vimeo.com/deankosage )
Dean Kosage’s YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/user/deanleverage
Dean Kosage on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/deankosage )
Dean Kosage on Twitter (@deankosage)
Dean Kosage web https://www.deankosage.com
"Unstoppable success even in the face of adversity is all about drawing on your resources and taking advantage of new opportunities,” said Dean.
Dean was especially attacked by haters and cyberbullies when he was with one of his first successes a company in the Direct Selling Industry. The company’s inability to communicate well with people or address the issues it was having exposed Dean to a lot of undue negativity because of his association. Caught in the crossfire, Dean realized that it was time to step away and create his own world.
How did Dean manage to ignore the hate speech that was directed towards him?
The truth is, he did not ignore his haters at all. Dean believes that there is plenty to learn from critics as well as haters. From critics, he believes that people can learn about areas where they must improve. And from haters, he says that we can learn about how people think and behave – and this knowledge is vital to get leverage towards success.
Dean Kosage’s Advice on Dealing with Haters
Although the path to success was hard and filled with difficulties, Dean is thankful that today he is a man full of knowledge and experience. These are some pearls of wisdom drawn from Dean’s experiences:
● Stay true to your commitments.
Dean believes that it is important for people to stick to their commitments no matter what happens. He says that the moment a person loses focus from what he is committed to, he will easily fall prey to the insults and critical comments of haters. Dean says that his unadulterated focus on his goals prevented him from getting discouraged or distracted by his haters.
● Pick the essentials, discard the rest.
There are a lot of things that haters say. However, instead of ignoring these things completely, Dean insists that it’s important to pick out things from their words that are essential for self-growth and development. Instead of wasting time on worrying about the hurtful comments. Dean suggests analyzing what is said, and see if there are hidden ideas or suggestions in them.
● Remember who you are.
Haters attack there where it hurts the most – self-identity. Haters try to make you feel terrible. If you fall into this trap, it will lead you to self-doubt and even break your confidence down. Dean suggests a simple solution to survive this – to remind yourself of who you are, what your ideals, values, your goals. He says that when we are sure of ourselves, nothing that anyone says can ever bring us down.
● Think of who you’re doing it for.
When hard times fell on Dean, he already had plenty of responsibilities in his hands. As a single father, he had to strive hard to make sure that his daughter never felt neglected. Instead of letting it become his weakness, he made it his strength. He knew that he had to win for his daughter.
Visit dean-kosage.us to know more about Dean.
Dean Kosage on Vimeo (https://vimeo.com/deankosage )
Dean Kosage’s YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/user/deanleverage
Dean Kosage on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/deankosage )
Dean Kosage on Twitter (@deankosage)
Dean Kosage web https://www.deankosage.com